Boey has been on a mission ever since she was diagnosed to help other little warriors. The last couple of days she’s been in full “Boey Cancer Warrior Tude” ever since she got back from her gift giving at the hospital. On the drive back from the hospital, I thoroughly enjoyed listening to how her giving and inspiring the other kids touched her heart. She was so excited and so sad at the same time. She was scheduling in my dayplanner the days we were going back to the hospital(which happened to be every day lol). She would say over and over again “it’s just so wrong mommy that my friends are suffering, if the President won’t listen to me and help us find a cure, then I WANT TO BE the President so I can help my friends AND the entire world”. VOTE BOEY FOR PRESIDENT!! To bad she’s only 7 Haha!! If there was only a way…
Well..if she can’t be President, the least we can do is bring her to the White House to talk to Congress about funds for cancer research so we can find a cure for this devastating killer of our kids(#1 disease killer of our children). She has lots of ideas on cancer prevention too. She was in full Boey mode the other day trying to figure how she can help her warrior friends find a cure and preventative measure for her friends all over the world. She wants to lobby for Congress to make it a law that all kids get a simple blood test twice a year(leukemia can easily be diagnosed with a simple blood test). She said she wants to talk to all the doctors and teach them to listen to kids and their moms when they feel something is wrong,(one of the ER docs said she was fine). The medical community needs to be more aggressive with concerned parents. I have heard time and time again from so many families that the doctors blow these parents off and act like they’re crazy for being so concerned about there child. They take there to child to different doctors and by the time they’re diagnosed it’s to late. If the first doctor would’ve listened and been more aggressive, that child would still be here today.
Because pediatric cancer is the #1 disease killer of our kids, why isn’t there more preventative care for our children? If the insurance industry and medical society can come together (miracles do happen) they can make MRI’s more accessible to our children(Boey’s tumor would’ve been caught much sooner and been able to be surgically removed…it was to big and entangled in bone and vessels to be safely removed..it had also spread to her lymph node). MRI’s are the ONLY machines that are safe(no radiation..all magnetic)enough to be a an awesome diagnostic tool for our children. Yes, it would be tricky considering most children would most probaby need to be sedated, but it’s better than the alternative of not knowing(remember..it’s the #1 disease killer of our children). We need to DO SOMETHING NOW until a cure is found. It’s unacceptable that are kids are dying when there is so much we can do as far as preventative care. Early diagnosis CAN SAVE LIVES. It’s mind boggling to me as a mother that there isn’t more preventative care for our children.
Boey will have her chance to go to Washington D.C if Livestrong chooses her as an advocate.You can read about LiveStrong day here http://www.livestrong.org/site/c.jvKZLbMRIsG/b.594849/k.CC7C/Home.htm She is VERY excited about this opportunity. We are also working on fundraising for Relay For Life http://www.cancer.org/docroot/par/content/PAR_1_Relay_For_Life.asp in May..Boey will walk for the first time as a survivor..here comes the BYERS TEAM!! CAN’T WAIT!! She envisioned herself at the White House and NOW her very own dream could be coming true!!!She would be honored to fight on all her warriors behalf!! Pray that her passion and dreams come true in Washington!! We’ll keep you updated on LiveStrong day:)
I wanted to give you an update on Boey’s health. Her last scans were on Dec. 4th as you know, and thankGod they were clear with no evidence of disease. Her next scans will be the first week of March. She will need a MRI every 3 months for the next year and then every 6 months for 4 years after that. I CAN’T WAIT FOR HER 5 YEAR MARK!!! She had a blood test a couple weeks ago, and the results were incredible. All of her numbers were within normal range or better. Her little body has been through so much, we weren’t sure how long it would take for her results to show normal blood levels. IT WAS AWESOME!! Her legs and feet are improving daily.. it’s so awesome to watch her blossom into our beautiful Boey girl everyday!!
We thankGod for his healing power and all his strength in keeping our family strong and protected through this battle. Please pray for our family as we struggle financially to get back on our feet and to overcome some of the harsh side effects that Boey’s experiencing because of radiation. Rob was looking in her mouth a couple months ago and started crying when he saw that most of her teeth looked as if they were melting away. The doctors warned us of the effects of radiation, but never did we expect something like this. She had perfect beautiful teeth, NEVER one cavity and NOW all her teeth look like little white melted nubs in her mouth. This has been devastating and absolutely heartwrenching. Because the radiation knocked out her salivary glands, she doesn’t have any saliva in her mouth which has devastating effects on her teeth. After taking her to the dentist, he said there is some preventative work he can do, but as far as the adult teeth that are being destroyed, she will most likely need major restorative care. Her throat and sinuses have also been affected. She can’t eat certain foods without it feeling like something is stuck in her throat(she’s seen an ENT at OHSU for this), she has constant bloody noses and mucous everyday cause of the effects of radiation(chronic sinusitis). I hate knowing she is continuing to suffer..I wish this would all go away and she could just be a little girl and enjoy her life without all these side effects. She has another battle ahead of her..but we have no doubt with God on her side and her “BOEY TUDE” that she will kick these side effects to the curb too!! WE BELIEVE!!
I am trying to not worry about the financial stuff cause it all seems so minimal compared to what we’ve been through and the miracle of our daughter’s healing..that’s all I care about is that my baby girl is here with me, but the financial stuff is now getting out of hand with the dental care that she needs done and drowning in the medical bills over the last year. It’s tearing me apart that her teeth are being destroyed, no words can describe how that makes me feel. She deserves so much better than this. Please pray for our little warrior that she gets the care she needs so she can continue to fight for others and change the world one day at a time!! THANKYOU for all your continued prayers, love and support..we could NEVER do this much without all of you on our side!! It means everything to us. (((((((((BOEY HUGS TO ALL OF YOU)))))))))))))))